In 1994 I was a new bartender at Ciro's Pomodoro restaurant/nightclub in
the bottom floor of an office building in Boca Raton Florida. On my
first night setting up the bar late afternoon this cool looking older
guy with a thin beard and stash and a little ponytail comes up to me and
says hey man my name is JB and i am the maintenance man of the
building. We chatted for a while and instantly became friends. He was 20
years older than me but still we were friends now. We ended up doing a
lot of side jobs together and worked well together. Now for a story
about him i bet no one knows. This nightclub was and Italian hang out by
members of the mob. On Thursday evenings it was singles night and i
would save a seat for JB as he would come in for a couple drinks and
chat with the ladies. He would usually have 2 or 3 ladies sitting around
him because of his magnetic personality. So one Thursday night the band
was playing and everyone is having a good time JB says i will be right
back as he went to the mens room. Upon returning some tough guy mob guy
was sitting in his seat so being the gentleman he was JB says excuse me
but you are in my seat. The guy looks at JB and says get lost. So i said
to the guy hey he was sitting there and the guy does nothing. JB again
says politely excuse me but you are in my seat. The guy stands up and
says to JB do you know who i am and goes to grab JB and JB grabs his
arms and head butted him twice and the guy falls to the ground and the
guys body guard jumps in and JB him and others have a scrum and the body
guard was reaching into the pile trying to stick his fingers in JB's
eyes but instead his finger goes into JB;s mouth and Jb bites his finger
real bad and the big tough body guard goes running through the night
club screaming like a little baby holding his bleeding finger so i go over to the head guy and tell
him what happened and said JB was a personal friend and it wasnt his
fault. So the head guy and JB go into the office and talk and both come
out and the guy says get him a drink on me. JB never paid for a drink in
that night club ever again. He was well respected with everyone from
working men to building owners and even to the mobsters. Although we
moved to Ft Pierce about an hour and a half away due to my parents being
sick we always kept in touch weekly by phone and he always said at the
end of our conversation love you brother . I hope this story wasnt too
graphic. He was a true gentleman and true friend i could always count
on. Actually he was my only true friend. Miss you Brother!!